With numerous adversities coming our way, many people have a tendency to put their own hopes and dreams on the backburner.  As a life coach, I find prioritizing to be the biggest challenge that I face with clients.  We sit down, set goals, and they aren’t accomplished.  And why?  Because people have been conditioned to put others first, and to not be “selfish” enough to work on themselves.  Or they rather spend their money on instant gratification vs. something that brings lasting peace and satisfaction.

Today, I would like to remind you…If you do not build yourself up and accomplish the goals you set for yourself, then how can you edify others?  An empty vessel has nothing to give….

So, I want you to make the decision that you are going to focus on creating the best you.  YOUR time is NOW!!!!!!!  Here’s a couple of tips to get started….

Accept responsibility.  Often times we blame our past, present, and future situations on other people/events.  Remember that we are a people of free will, and that we create situations in our lives, even if we don’t want to accept it.  Bad budgeting can be prevented, signs are given in bad relationships, parents do not dictate our adult lives.  Once you accept responsibility for your own life and decisions, you are off to a good start.

Get on your mission.  Every organized business has a mission statement which provides guidance and focus.  It is my belief that individuals need mission statements as well.  There are several websites that provide online mission statement wizards to assist you in creating your very own personal mission statement.  One you have your statement, print it, memorize it, and reflect on it every day.

The next thing to do is build your resilience.  Once you make a decision to live a life of freedom, prepare for adversities.  There will be haters, bills, challenges, etc. that will come your way.  I tell people all the time that being a life coach does not make me immune to the troubles of the world.  It is the way that I handle those adversities is how I show resilience.  Prepare to do a spiritual detox of the people, places, and things that hinder your growth.

Prepare yourself for a life-long learning experience.  The reason that all great leaders and entrepreneurs constantly read is because they embrace continuing education.  Take the initiative to read daily, attend workshops, enroll in audit classes, etc.  The more you learn, the more you grow, and the more you can teach to others.  (I have included a beginner’s self improvement book list on my website to get you started).

Network your way to success.  The old saying is true: “Your network is your net-worth”.  Surrounding yourself with success-minded people is one of the ultimate key to success.  Anything else is draining, and will eventually take you down a notch.  Attend events to address your goals, join associations/organizations, and communicate with members beyond the meetings.  Build a website, create contact cards, and travel!   And most importantly, find a mentor that can provide a gateway to your goals.

Take care of your body.  A person who is unhealthy, stressed and tired definitely cannot be an asset to other s (or themselves).  When was the last time you exercised?  It is on a regular basis?  When was your last annual physical?  Do you sleep 6-8 hours or more daily?  How are your eating habits?  These are all things to think about.  We Gen-“X”ers and “Y”ers are at a critical point of our lives.  We are too old to treat our bodies any type of way, yet young enough to make corrections and prevent chronic and genetic diseases.  Yes, I said it, the days of double cheeseburgers at midnight end now!

Get your mind on your money.  Again I say, we are at the age to correct past mistakes, and prepare for the future. Yet, some of our peers do not have savings accounts, create piles of credit mistakes, and don’t even know what an IRA is, so how can they have one?!?  Today, get a free copy of your credit report, set aside 10% of your income to pay down debts, and reprioritize your money. Create a budget, do not acknowledge raises (save the new found extra money), and live within your means!

Your last lesson for today: address the spirit that is within.  Find strength from a higher power, and cast your worries and hopes therein.  Take the time everyday for meditation, journaling your progress, and blessing others.  Share the things you learn along life’s way with others.  Give your time, gifts/talents, tithes when you are able.  All great leaders know to delegate responsibility and power.  Giving your worries, goals and things you cannot control to a higher power is the ultimate leadership power move.

These are just a couple of tips from one of my workshop “The Seven Secrets That all Leaders Know”.  And yes, YOU are a leader!  If you need any assistance in implementing these strategies, or want to bring this workshop to your city, do not hesitate to Contact the Coach!

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Brandi L. Dawson  AKA “BranDIVA” is the owner of Liberation Coaching & Consulting.  She is a sought after business/personal success coach, empowerment speaker, and proud special needs parent.  To bring Coach Brandi to your company or organization, contact her at  706-225-9217 (Monday-Friday  10AM-5PM).  For additional information, bios or empowerment resources, go to www.liberationcoaching.com for links, resources and facebook/twitter contacts.